Hard Work in Marriage That You Might Never Take Seriously Before

|||Hard Work in Marriage That You Might Never Take Seriously Before

 

1. To agree to disagree.

No two people agree on everything. Be okay with each other’s differences.

2. Listen first, don’t interrupt.

Not everyone is able to read minds. Understand before being understood.

3. Never start with ‘you’.

Start with ‘I’ to prevent blame game. Share your feeling instead of thought.

4. Learn to appreciate.

Or else, it will be hard to forgive mistakes. Appreciate from the smallest act to the biggest!

5. Respect each other.

Avoid verbal and physical abuse! Keep the insult to yourself.

6. Spare special time.

Prioritise relationship over the career. Make it quality time together.

Most importantly, all of these are for BOTH!

“Why doesn’t she…” “Why doesn’t he…” No, they are for both husband and wife!

 

“Love doesn’t just sit there, like a stone, it has to be made, like bread; remade all the time, made new.” (Ursula K. Le Guin, The Lathe of Heaven)

By | 2019-01-11T17:14:08+00:00 March 19th, 2018|Categories: Good Kids and Family, Good You|Tags: , , , |

About the Author:

Syuaib, who works best from behind the scene, is Do Good’s Research and Publication Executive. A graduate with double majors in both the fields of religious study and biotechnology, he is also the Vice President for Malaysian Association of Youth Harmony, leading the movement of over 2,000 youths nationwide. He is also actively participating in other NGOs and engaging various civil society groups, holding the firm belief that a combination of universal values together with regular and social media engagements is the key for a better world.